in Recovery

Create

Healthy SOBER Love Relationships

Change Your Relationship Patterns

* As a SOBER Relationship Coach, I'm dedicated to guiding people in recovery to change their relationship patterns by building fulfilling and intimate connections.

* Through compassionate support and my proven SOBER Relationship Blueprint™ method, I empower my clients to overcome their past challenges and cultivate the healthy, loving relationships they want and deserve.

Getting SOBER Didn't Mean That I Knew

How to Have Healthy Relationships - Today I Do

A Bit of My Story

I don’t know how it happened.

One day, I woke up and realized that alcohol was ruling my life from the time I woke up until I went to sleep.

I was really unhappy. I was neglecting my kids who were in elementary school at that time. I was barely performing at work. And I was in a relationship that was really unhealthy.

Maybe this is you too?

That is not what my life looks like anymore!

Today, I move through each day knowing that it's a gift. I am a much better woman. I am a better mother to my young-adult sons. I am in a healthy SOBER love relationship. And I have much deeper relationships with all people in my life.

Through these years since I got sober from alcohol, I have learned through lots of my own mistakes how to do SOBER Dating and SOBER Relationships better.

I created my proprietary SOBER Relationship Blueprint™ method and since 2020, have taught many other people how to have Healthy SOBER Love Relationships using the SOBER Relationship Blueprint™ program.

I love being able to empower my clients to overcome their past challenges and cultivate the healthy, loving relationships they deserve.

The SOBER Relationship Blueprint™ is a framework guiding personal growth through the acronym SOBER to prepare you to have better, healthier, deeper SOBER relationships.

Stop the Sucking Pain of Unhealthy SOBER Love Relationships

I KNOW the pain that you are feeling – I was there too
I KNOW how FRUSTRATING it feels to keep dating the 'wrong' person who isn't 'available' for you - I was there too
I KNOW how much it hurts - I was there too
I KNOW how much it sucks - I was there too
I ALSO KNOW that there is a solution - You can be there too

Through exercises and guided conversations, I’ll help you move toward a place of awareness, action, and accountability to help you build Healthy SOBER Love Relationships.

The Problem We Address...

Many women and men in recovery struggle to build healthy, fulfilling relationships
Past hurts, trust issues, and unhealthy patterns can hinder your ability to connect with others in a healthier, more loving way
This can lead to loneliness, frustration, toxic relationships, isolation, and a lack of the deep, SOBER love you truly want and deserve

The Solution We Provide...

Comprehensive Coaching

Our tailored program offers one-on-one coaching to help you identify and overcome barriers to healthy relationships in sobriety.

Relationship Skill-Building

Develop essential skills like creating a SOBER dating plan, communication, conflict resolution, and emotional intimacy to build the SOBER love you want and deserve.

Personalized Support

Receive ongoing guidance and accountability to stay motivated and make lasting changes in your relationships.

Who SOBER Relationship Blueprint is For?

Women and men in recovery who are looking to build healthy, fulfilling relationships

Women and men who want to overcome past relationship hurts and develop the self-love needed for SOBER love

Women and men seeking to break unhealthy relationship patterns and create meaningful connections in sobriety

Women and men in SOBER relationships who want to strengthen their bond and deepen their intimacy

Here's What They Say:

"The SOBER Relationship Blueprint gave me a 'superpower' to go out there and SOBER date...I have been in a 2-year #HealthySoberRelationship and still work with Louie because her suggestions are so helpful."

Cassie W.

"I have such a great feeling of strength & self-confidence about SOBER dating now. I LOVE The SOBER Relationship Blueprint and the way Louie shares her experience to help others... She sure helped me!"

Marie R.

"I have much more meaningful connections, b/c I learned more about intimacy, boundaries, and self-care... which has lead to having better relationships in my life... am SO grateful to Louie and The SOBER Relationship Blueprint."

Amanda B.